Is marriages made in heaven or made for each other

These days they are very much made on earth.And arranging marriages is not a heavenly experience either.Down south parents take the responsibility of finding life partners for their children.Believe me,it is not as easy as it was a couple of decades ago.First parents have to be tech-savy to search the matrimony sites n find the ideal  partner whom they think will suit their child And if their son/.daughter approves the profile then they can proceed.They cannot  do much at this juncture n can only be a connecting link.so the boy n girl will decide on an idlyllic spot to meet...  only if they agree on that.If they still like each other after the ft meeting the compatibility test begins,to know whether their life partner will suit them emotionally,intellectually,habitually n so on.We have give them time so it may go on n on.If u hurry them they will retort.This getting to know will take  two months or more.In the end  they  may come n tell that they cannot marry him /her for reasons that u think are trivial or reasonsthat u never thought of in your his/her accent is not good .but there is nothing wrong with your children.They r perfect,normal, modren children who know what they want n looking for that "made for each other''.

Mysteries

Our life is simple,it is complex, its like seasons.At times ,prickly.yet happiness or chaos.It is as a nail bitting.It seems like everything in life happening at the same time...Job,education,marriage,finances,health,  and so on.The important thing is one  should understand what we are going through... to bring balance.If we dont  know  for whatever reason, we get emotionally isolated.This trigger anxiety,pressure and stress.The only way we can bring stability is by way of a connect- we need to connect  with ourselves and with others around us.

goal

Yes my son grew up in different places n  studied .He had tro out come first in class.He worked hard  in 9th,10th 11th n 12th std to get tro IIT.The firt time he experienced a major failure to get IIT.Like many other students he worked hard having slept four to five hours a day.After doing all the hardwork the result was disappointing.The positive out of this experience is that he got 96th rank in Anna university n got admission in ECE.got merit.out standing in his studies.n got university 2nd rank.He was motivated to apply for a masters degree in the U.S. The environment is highly competitive  in U.S.He was smart enough to get in touch with prof.n he had very good name .Now he is highly placed in silicon valley.Hope one day he will be genius.